Of late I've noticed a lot of things going around me - some appreciable; others rather disappointing!
The other day, I was travelling to an early morning tuition by bus, and to my surprise I saw the bus was being manned by a lady conductor! That was so damn cool, considering the fact that you see very few female passengers at that time of the day, and here was a lady managing a bus by herself. In view of the depressing state of affairs of west Bengal, when it comes to women, this was indeed a welcome sight.
Often in offices, you notice that a lot of the employees and in some cases (though not so rare), even employers are re-christened with names, names which may not be supposed to mean well. To a certain extent, the re-christening part is bearable, but at times when it gets too rough and rude, it becomes really, really, un-cool! It then looks like a clear cut expression of not wanting to work under or with someone, either out of ego or due to lack of compatibility and failure to adjust.
Singing for your girlfriend, and letting out a low whistle on seeing her --- romantically cheesy yet understandably cool.
Hooting at a girl on the road and passing comments or singing to her, either directly or indirectly --- so not cool!
An initiative named M.A.R.D - Men Against Rape and Discrimination by Bollywood actor Farhan Akhtar, is so cool and hopefully will go on to be successful.
Keeping the name of your movie - Mard ko dard nai hota, is ... Do i really need to say it out loud?!